David Asked: I’m So Scared Help PLEASE!?

Hi my name is david and im a 14 year old boy i normally wouldn't ask such a question and in advance i'm sorry if i miss spell anything! anyways i'm VERY depressed! and im scared to get help cause of my past what happened in my past was when i was 8 or 9 years old the doctor said that i had a slight case of a mind disorder called aspergers and he put me on medication witch i NEVER needed! and the medication reacted on me and that caused more and more problems and all the medication that i was on was causing bad things including some kind of mad spells and gain weight all that kind of stuff and it made me so much worse the doctor said in so many words i cant doctor you any more so basically i have been passed around from doctor to doctor like a ball !!! and each one of them put me on and took me off medication trying medication after medication on me and alot of it wasn't even tested on kids some of the doctors said so them self !! the medication was doing causing so many bad things to me it even made me have such a mad spell one time that i had to go to the court house and meet the head lady of juvenile in my state and she got right in my face in front of my parents and my parents was forced to just sit there and not say anything and she scared me to death so here i was just a kid having to sit there and listen to all of the things that lady was saying she was SO mean !!!! she even said something that i didn't get any sense out of she said and i'm sure you would make someone a very nice girl friend in juvenile or something like that does anyone know what that means? but however im NOT someone crazy!!! cause in early to mid 2011 my mom decided to take matters in her own hands and take me off of all medication!!!!!! since then i have been doing so much better i was so happy i had no more mad spells or anything and i still dont but however when Thanksgiving came last year i started getting depressed and since then i have been getting worse and worse its causing things that i would hardly ever do such as sleep to little and eat to little and its causing things to go through my mind that i NEVER would think about unless im depressed like killing myself right now its at the point where i dont trust myself i wouldn't say im acutely suicidal cause of the depression but its seriously getting there i think and my parents dont know this i mean they know i have been depressed but not this bad! and today they are leaving me here at home cause they are going to eat lunch out cause its their 27th anniversary they think im getting over my depression witch somewhat is true but then again no not at all somedays im getting better over it but then there's always that day where it all hits if u know what i mean? so basically all you guys on Yahoo are the only ones that knows i dont want to go with my parents cause i want this meal they are eating out to be just them since i paid for it !!!! and i have no friends that i could be with today to hang out with and i cant really trust myself at all i just really really hope that i wont and dont do anything especially on my parents anniversary it would kill them!!!!! but i cant help it its like im being controlled to do this kind of stuff stuff i would NOT ever do! and i guess all of you will think im crazy and im sorrry i cant help it!! so….. i guess im asking if there is a way to over come this without a hospital or medications and without anyone knowing about it except all of you on yahoo? Please Help Me!!! im crying right now and please be nice to me!

Lily Asked: My brother is SO addicted to video games please help!?

1. my brother is so addicted to video games, he plays video games for like half the day and he NEVER does his homework ( he's in highschool. and he's 15 yrs old) and he always plays games instead of doing his schoolwork. my mom limits him to play for 3 hours a day but he always goes off to his room to play games in secret.. he almost drove my mom out of our house because she was so sick and tired of all the crap he was doing. and today she caught him in his room trying to do games and he kept lying and lying to her…
he doesn't hang out with as many friends as he used to and his grades are dropping lower and lower into the C-F ranges…
this has been going on since forever , and whenever my parents catch him trying to play games in secret, he'll always do whatever to apologize and get it over with but in less than an hour, he starts to play games again..
what should we do? should we just send him to a therapist? or ..? i don't even know anymore.

mrssrmx Asked: Air Force at 17. No plan for life yet. Help is appreciated.?

i'm 17, i'm a senior in high school, and i have no clue what i'm trying to do with my life… i was considering just doing community college for 2 years where i grew up, in Maryland, for nursing, but both of my parents ALWAYS complain about money. my mom tells me she doesn't even know how she's going to buy me a car, she complains about money so much. and i don't even know if that's what i want to do; school. so when i saw a man in an army suit in my school the other day, it reminded me of how i used to want to be a nurse in the military. so i started looking it up again, bc i was told that education is free when enlist in the army, navy, or air force (which is what i want to do.) and i was informed about all of the benefits and bonuses of enlisting at an early age.
i was told i could enlist at 17, but i have no clue what i would do or how i would do it, and what i would have to go through. or if i would even be accepted, bc i have asthma.
i really need help; i have SO many questions. if you think you could possibly have a lot of answers for me, please post your email address or some way i could contact you.
thank you thank you thank you

Paula Shields Asked: Is she too young for me?

Right I like this girl who is 8 years younger than me but she is perfect and don't say you don't know her that well if you think she's perfect but I know all about her and she's just wow. Firstly, she's absolutely beautiful and I mean so pretty with a gorgeous face and perfect figure, she's a lovely person and is so charitable and is constantly doing extra work to help other people just out of pure kindness. She is gifted with brains!! I mean she is so smart! She is just naturally intelligent and knowledge just pours out of her, everyone has such high hopes for her. She is in love with a sport, I mean OBSESSED and I happen to be on the team which Is a big bonus for me. She lives in a mansion of a house and her parents are the most decent people in the world. She also really likes me too and makes it clear enough but I have a girlfriend and Im eight years older and shes still in her teens and it sounds creepy but she's not like a normal teenager she is SO mature for her age and she's just perfect should I go for It or try and get over her? (btw I know it says Paula shields but Im not a lesbian, I'm on my sisters account)

Eminems Canada Giirly Asked: Creme of Mushroom Soup, or Smokey Bacon Clam Chowder? Can’t decided. (Loser Me)?

So my parents are gone for the night so I cleaned up the house, and now I'm stucking making food for myself. And if you know me, you'd know to never let me cook.
See my parents are both Exucutive Chefs so.. I get nice fancy food everynight and I've never really had to make food for myself..
SO first off.
Which soup? Creme of Mushroom or Smokey Bacon Clam Chowder?

And..well like I said I don't make food a lot..
Oh god. This is embrarassing.
HOW DO I MAKE SOUP?

Grace is better as First Name Asked: Christian, why was I "afraid" of Christianity when I was little?

I was an Agnostic as a child. And now that I am a Christian, I have a totally different REALITY.
Back then, I thought my "reality" was THE reality. you know what I mean?
MY "reality" was, pp cease existing after we die. And we came from nowhere. Big Band plus Evolution, you know? That was my reality. And that reality of mine was SO real to me that when the lady who spread the gospel to me told me that Satan, the Devil exists, I was so shocked and scared?!

I felt so afraid!!… And all of a sudden, I thought that if there wasn't a Jesus, all loving, all mighty, what would happen to me, a mere human being, a "natural" being, now knowing the existence of the supernatural world?

I remember that before I believed in God, I was afraid of everything supernatural. My nature was to avoid at all cost to accept the fact that the supernatural existed, bc that made me feel insecure! Powerless, so my mind supressed the Truth!!

And you know that in this days in History and the regions I grew up in… I've heard of the existence of Christianity since I had memory. I mean, I went to a Catholic elementary EVEN THO my parents aren't believers. I prayed with the teacher and classmates since age six. I believed in Jesus when I prayed. That was school education. And the country I lived in was Catholic. But since my parents are strong Atheist, I chose to follow my parents beliefs without questioning!! I thought my parents are right, the other ppl are wrong.

I didn't dig nor seek to find out more about God.
I was afraid of Christianity just as now I learned to be afraid of the non-Christian, worldly things!

It's like, it switched around!

And I didn't know I actually belonged to Satan!

Now I find it surprising that I had been his without even believing!!!

LC Asked: Need some man advice ASAP! Really upset and don’t know what do and no answers yet?

Need some man advice ASAP! Really upset and don't know what do and no answers yet?

I have this friend for 5 yrs and we live long distance(200miles apart) we keep in touch and have seen each other 3x in the past 5 yrs. we have had sex before he got married and kept email/long distant friends. he is very close friend to me but last year his parent died and he separated from his wife and moved home. he suddenly over the holidays became distant but still talked to me. I had to text him happy thanksgiving, merry xmas, and happy new year. he wanted me to call him and I did but he was soo busy all the time moving home. so i gave up calling cause i felt i was chasing him but he told me to call him. well in jan i told him i just wanted to be "friends" and to keep our relationship where it is. he started to text me more for feb. he said happy valentines day and all. but in march -april for 3 weeks he got distant and no contact. mind you in 2010 we went from text/email 5x a week to 0 x a week. in april i asked him if he was seeing a girl cause of the distance or saying he was always "busy". he replied that no gf (no body wants him) and that he was keeping "Busy" to keep from being depressed over the divorce and parent dying. so i gave him space and only texted him when he texted me. well i have for 3 mths asked him to come down and see me but he says he needs to figure "how" to see me? what the hell ? how to see me? u get in a car and drive down to see me.what is up with that? SO do u think he is avoiding me do u think i came on too strong? i love him but he doesn't know it and i think i will never tell him to ruin things right now since he has alot on his plate with divorce and all. I just want to be part of his life like we were last year but he seems like he is back to being aquint again. Do i send him an email asking him if i came on too strong and that we are just friends and i just want to spend time with him and hang out . every 3 yrs is not much time to hang. do i just pull away and be quiet and see if he comes around. his sister friended me on face book in april and we chatted for awhile and now she is no contact too. very strange. i texted her a few times and no reply and then i retext her again and she said in a text that she is just busy with working and taking care of 2 kids and her mom is kicking out of the house. i texted her that if she needed anything i am here for her. i am soo confused? What is happening here? what should i do?

Beachy Keen2 Asked: Questions for parents with small children that live in an apartment.?

So Saturday I just moved in to an apartment (from a house) with my 1 1/2 year old son and almost 4 year old son.They are SO loud.Not just yelling, but jumping, crawling etc.How do/did you keep them quiet?After talking to my almost 4 year old and reminding him often he's pretty good about it now, but my 1 1/2 year old there is no talking to him about being quiet.He doesn't yell much or anything but when he crawls it probably sounds like a stampede to the people downstairs.They came up once on the day I was moving everything in Saturday and asked me to keep it down.:-SBut I can't help that my 1 year old crawls loudly.I guess they'll just have to deal with it?Not sure what the consequences could be to being loud.But it's not like I'm having a party.I have 2 small children.

marge Asked: Please help me. Why won’t he compromise on where to live?

My fiance and I are getting married in just a couple of months. He keeps telling me we are living in his current town. He won't budge… It is SO far from where I work and out of the way from everything else. I keep telling him no I refuse. And he says "we'll see."
My mother says to tell him I will leave if he won't compromise. But I don't want to leave. I want him to compromise.

I don't know what is going on. He gets mad and tells me he will get a house with his mother. I don't know why he says this. (not her living there but her name on the house) They have yet to cut the umbillical chord, to be quite frank.

I don't know what to do. I want to just curl up in a ball and die. How could someone be so impossible?
If we live there my commute will have gone from 20 minutes to a full hour, more money on gas. He would conveniently be probably 1 mile from his parents and be there constantly or them be over our house constantly. I would rather that bit be somewhere we are both happy with. Why pay so much on gas, a home, 40 minutes a day driving then to 2 hours a day driving, and not be happy? Why?

I told him I refuse. I worry his mother is helping with our downpayment and then him thinking that means the decision is out of my hands. That is not how both a serious relationship or a marriage works. Period. You don't tell me ok we are getting this house without me saying ok also. And I think he thinks this is what is going to happen.

Please don't tell me to simply leave– give me advice on how to fix/help this situation. That is my decision, I need to know how though. I have told him he would be happy and I would be happy with wherever we live, but he says why does everything have to be a compromise? This is the "everything."

Dana Asked: Why are my parents SO strict at me?

I asked this kinda question before, but I didn't get enough answer. So here it is again:

I'm an African American woman and I think being born black has been a curse for me. Don't ask why. My (real) hair is really corpse and kinky. The longest that my hair's been is past my shoulders but not pass my elbows. People thin that black girls can't have long hair, and keep asking them if that's weave. When I was younger, my parents NEVER let's me go swimming, unless I have a swimming cap on. I HATE wearing those. Most people in my family NEVER go swimming that much, well some do. The tell me, "No swimming cap, no swimming!" My relatives are telling me to be careful when I go swimming or I'll get my hair wet. They don't to my younger sister, well sometimes. My younger half sister's multiracial. Her mom (who is my stepmother) is Caucasian and Costa Rican and our dad's black. She's SOOOOO lucky to have natural, thick and curly hair and she's gorgeous. The other girls other races are SO lucky, THEY don't have to wear a swimming cap. I barley see a black girl go swimming. It's like black girls aren't allowed to go swimming! I think White, Hispanic, Asian or whoever has better hair than black people do.!

BTW, I'm a 21 year old with asperger's.

WHY DID I HAVE TO BE BLACK?!!!!! I HATE IT! I HATE IT! I HATE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!

I had a perm put on my hair at 10 and it broke off really bad!